Kumnandi ukubukela idiki emnyama ikhwelisa impundu yentombazana eblonde. Ufanele ukuba ngumgodi wokwanelisa amadoda amnyama kwaye aginye i-cum yabo enamathele. Kwaye yindima ayithandayo. Ndingathanda ukuya ngaphaya kwale mingxunya iphuhlileyo, imanzi ngolwimi lwam.
Kuyabonakala ukuba umyeni wayenomfazi wakhe ukuba asebenze kangangokuba wayekulungele ukubeka nawuphi na umngxuma emzimbeni wakhe ukuze aphumle, ngoko ke wafumana ummelwane, awayemtyhola ngamaxesha athile phambi kwakhe. Ngexesha elifanayo akanqandeki ngokupheleleyo, kwaye unikezela kwi-esile, kwaye kuzo zonke ii-slits azicelayo, kuba iqhude lakhe elikhulu lithanda ngokucokisekileyo, ligweba ngokububula kwakhe, nangaphezulu ngokucokisekileyo.