Ngaloo ndlela abafazi babesoloko bezivumela ukuba bohlwaywe kwaye baqeqeshelwe ukwenza imigilingwane. Ukuba wayeswele ngesondo kunye nokuqala kubudlelwane, yiloo nto kanye awayifumana kumyeni wakhe. Umzimba wakhe otyebileyo uvuselela umyeni wakhe, uvumela yena kunye neqabane lakhe ukuba bafumane inzuzo ephezulu. Ithoyizi isetyenziswa kunye ngaphezu kwesinye, ndiyacinga. Ukubukela okuthandwayo, ubudlelwane obuhle kunye ne-twist phakathi kwesi sibini.
I-minx endala ayizange ijonge ukuba ngunyana wakhe omncinci kwaye yamenza ukuba amfake kuyo yonke indawo eyaziwayo. Ubunokumxelela ngesikhalo sakhe esithandekayo ukuba uyawuthanda umzimba womfana omncinci kunye nomhlobo wakhe onobubele. Kubonakala ngathi ukuba wayenako, wayeya kuginya kungekuphela nje iqhude ngokuzonwabisa, kodwa unyana wonke. Unina wayengazizo iziyolo zesini yaye wayemfundisa kakhulu lo mlukuhli uselula.
Ndiyithandile le kliphu ngenxa yendalo yayo. uyabona ukuba umfazi ophakathi, kodwa uthanda isondo kunye needicks ezinkulu zamkela ngokulula. Bendizolala naye.